Coach Cary
Showing up to life has never been a problem, but showing up fully supported by love, positivity, and gratefulness is something I did not realize I was missing. I kept hearing about people who chose positivity over negativity, and the peace and opportunities they found intrigued me. This took me down a road of reflection and curiosity about what I wanted the second half of my life to represent.
This is when I met and worked with life coaches and mentors to develop a way to teach myself—and others—how to consistently practice gratitude, show up, and truly experience life. I was tired of the self-help books, podcasts, and external forces screaming at me that “there is another way.” It was time to take action. I realized that, when it comes down to it, no one was going to save me; it was up to me to move forward.
I developed “42 Days to Peace and Prosperity” with a friend and mentor to give my fellow humans a way to show up differently to both the beautiful and challenging parts of life. It’s about operating with a full cup and making decisions that serve your best interests. Too often, we try to help others by giving all our energy and love externally, only to wonder why there is nothing left for us. This process will allow you to decide where you will spend and give your precious energy.
“42 Days to Peace and Prosperity” is a tool you can use to heal from past traumas, build self-worth, raise your awareness, and consistently practice love and gratitude until they become habits. It’s about waking up with gratitude, engaging in thoughts that honor yourself, and celebrating every win—even the small ones. There is no better way for you to uncover your special gift than by actively exploring kindness for yourself.
When I made the decision to show up for myself, the results were amazing. First, loving myself gave me the confidence to connect with my spiritual side and trust in my journey with God and Christ. Another profound change was matching my internal state to what I desire externally to effect change in my life. Long gone is the guy who wished and hoped for change. Now, I put forth positive action and love every single day to create the unlimited possibilities and opportunities that are available to everyone.
When you work with me, you can expect a kind and understanding coach with a strong work ethic—someone who shows up for himself and will be there for you as you grow into a more supported version of yourself. I don’t yell and I don’t get upset, but you can guarantee I will be with you every step of the way.
About Cary Schram
At ten years old, I remember writing on the back of a sticky name tag: “I will be a professional baseball player, basketball player, or football player.” I stuck it under my desk where someone would find it and be happy because I was famous. Back then, I had the hopes and dreams of a little boy—desires that were slowly covered up by the heavy experiences of life.
Growing up outside of Seattle in the Pacific Northwest provided a safe, happy childhood filled with sports and every opportunity a boy could hope for. Excelling in sports gave me a strong foundation in teamwork and a drive to succeed. I built relationships during those years that still stand today, and I remain deeply grateful for them.
However, on December 31, 1989, at 1:00 a.m., my life and the lives of my three best friends changed forever. One of us would never come home again. In a flash, our fragile, childhood views were replaced by the harsh realities of adulthood. I believe this experience saved me from my own demise by forcing me to grow up and become responsible at a very young age. Yet, I also carried that pain and loss for decades; it wasn’t until I completed my “42-Day Process” that I was finally able to forgive myself for that tragedy.
After high school, I moved to Boulder, Colorado, for a fresh start. I had an amazing time skiing, traveling, and eventually earning my Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from CU Boulder. From there, life felt supercharged and ready to take flight. Ten days after graduation, I met my future wife. I opened my furniture store on October 1, 2002, and got married in September 2003. Two beautiful, healthy children arrived, and for many years, I had everything I could possibly want or need.
I owned that furniture store for almost 23 years. Eventually, the stress of the business—and my inability to manage that pressure—took the form of alcohol and drug addiction. I thought I kept my addiction hidden from most people; on the outside, it looked like I had the perfect life. Inside, however, the daily need for alcohol and prescription drugs eroded my confidence and self-worth.
In 2019, my world changed for the better when it was finally time to get sober. My wife told me our “fairytale” was over; if I didn’t get sober, she and the kids were gone. I snapped to attention immediately. While my initial “why” for getting sober was my family, I eventually realized I had to do it for myself. Our relationship was great for six months, but then Covid hit, and life tested us again.
The damage from my past addiction weighed too heavily on my wife. In 2022, she told me she was no longer attracted to me and wanted a divorce. I am so glad I was sober at that time, or I may not be here today. Even though I didn’t want the divorce then, it was absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me.
After the divorce was finalized in February 2023, I began a new spiritual journey. Through conversations with my best friend and mentors, I explored a relationship with God, curious about what He had in store for me.
From 2023 to 2025, my furniture store struggled financially. I hired my first life coach to help me amplify the store’s message through social media. While social media was a gift for the business, it gave me something unexpected: a glimpse into my future as a coach. During this time of transition, I stayed engaged with life—playing pickleball and skiing—and I eventually met an amazing partner who is truly a gift from God.
The start of 2025 brought both opportunity and the realization that my store would soon close. A new mentor entered my life, and together we developed the processes I use today. The “42-Day Process” was instrumental in giving me the confidence to get baptized, confront the demons of my past, and forgive myself and others.
I spent five days a week with my partner building this new path—creating websites, going live on social platforms, and developing a business partnership—all while running my store until it finally closed in September 2025. Eventually, I became the sole owner of the coaching business to ensure it fully aligned with my direction and values.
I began 2026 with the launch of a new podcast, a refocused message, and an expanded reach. Today, I am dedicated to using my journey to help my clients create their own unlimited possibilities.
Coach Cary 